The amount of stimulation of different sensations that happen when a man expresses his sexual desires…it does something to me. Have you asked your lover what do they like sexually? Deep conversations about it? How do they look when talk about it? What is the body language? What energy do you feel hearing them express?
The power of 20 minutes! I tell my Doula clients to have 20 minutes of intentional tummy time with the baby where the mom and partner sit with the baby and talk, play music, bond. This helps build the connection between parents and baby. The baby will remember your voice and will respond well to other stimulations.
Same energy! Spend 20 minutes with your partner and talk about intimacy, pleasure, desires, fantasies.